"What do I even wear?"


is one of the first questions almost every client asks us. The good news: there's no wrong answer. The better news: you don't have to figure it out alone.


Here's how to think about outfits for your Boudoir session, whether you've got a wardrobe full of options or absolutely nothing you feel confident in yet.


Start With How You Want to Feel


Before you think about lace or leather, ask yourself one question: how do I want to feel in these photos? Sexy? Powerful? Soft? Edgy? Elegant? Your outfit choices should follow that feeling, not the other way around.


If you want to feel soft and romantic, think lace, silk and delicate fabrics.

If you want to feel powerful and editorial, think leather jackets, boots and bold statement pieces.

If you want to feel playful, think themed looks — pinup, vintage, or something entirely your own.


Lingerie Is Popular, But It's Not the Only Option


Most clients do include at least one lingerie look, and honestly, it's a great excuse to finally buy yourself something beautiful. If you've got a drawer full of gorgeous pieces you never get the chance to wear, this is your moment.


But lingerie is just one option, not a requirement:


Flowy dresses and slips

Oversized shirts (yes, even your partner's)

Denim, leather jackets and sneakers for a street-style shoot

Bodysuits, corsets or something structured and bold

Nothing at all, styled tastefully, if that's what feels right for you


Bring Your Personality Into It


The best sessions are the ones that feel unmistakably you. So bring it:


Country girl at heart? Bring the boots and the hat.

Always wanted to be a warrior woman, a vintage pinup, or even a glamorous zombie hunter? We've done it before, and we'll do it again.


This is your session. The more of your personality you bring, the more the photos will actually feel like you.


Stuck? We've Got You Covered


If you get to the week of your shoot and still have no idea what to wear, don't panic and don't cancel. Sometimes the sexiest looks have been black bonds undies and a daggy old flannelette shirt. I also have a small studio wardrobe of boudoir basics such as big floppy jumpers, white button-up shirts and black lacy robes ready for you to try on the day. Plenty of clients feel like they turn up with nothing and leave with photos in five or six completely different outfits.


A Few Practical Tips


Bring more than you think you need - it's easier to edit down on the day than to wish you'd brought something else.

Avoid clothing with tight elastic that leaves marks 30 minutes before your shoot. That goes for leggings and socks as well.

Don't stress about "matching" a theme perfectly. Contrast and unexpected combinations often make for the most striking images.


At the end of the day, what you wear matters far less than how you feel wearing it. So bring what makes you feel like you, and we'll help with everything else.


Ready to plan your outfits? Book your styling consultation today.